Feel Good Fridays

A 1903 engraving of Joan of Arc by Albert Lynch featured in the Figaro Illustre magazine

A 1903 engraving of Joan of Arc by Albert Lynch featured in the Figaro Illustre magazine

I hope you all had a wonderful week! Mine has had wonderful ups and laughable downs, but here we sit at the end of the week! Happy Friday!!!

Today I’m inspired by the tenacity of my fellow EndoWarriors. Women who have been handed a nasty hand of cards, yet continue to move forward, stand tall, and are not afraid to reach out for help or comfort when needed. Even on the downer days, wrapped up in a heating pad, popping pain medications, rubbin’ on CBD oil, or crying in a ball on the floor: that inner strength remains.

We lift one another up. Hold each other when we’re down. Fight for one another when the cause arises. We are a sisterhood. An army. A mighty force. We are incredible. And moreso with the bonds we’ve forged.

“Behind her gentle character, the strength of armor was found.”
― Erin Forbes, Fire & Ice: The Kindred Woods

Whatever sort of week or day you’re having, know that you ARE a mighty Warrior. And you have the support of those around you.

Stand tall, Sisters, and consider yourself hugged.

Love, Lisa

Blogs I updated this week:

C-Sections & Endometriosis: Added a March 2018 study of a 35-year-old woman with c-section Endo; added a February 2019 study of 8 cases of Endometriosis developing in c-section scars; and added a February 2019 study of 2 women with c-section scar Endo.

Dungeons & Dragons & Donuts: Added our January 20, 2019, adventure (Sorry we’re a little behind…). Find out how tabletop gaming can help people deal with a chronic illness, forge friendships, and disappear into a fantasy realm for a few hours once a month.

Endometriosis & the Lungs: Added a May 2019 publication of a woman who suffered from recurrent collapsed lungs NOT during her period; yet received a surgical diagnosis of thoracic endometriosis. Your symptoms do NOT have to coincide with your period. Also added another May 2019 publication of a woman who suffered repeat collapsed lungs during her period.

Endometriosis & Wine: Added a Feb. 2019 study about resveratrol and its possible anti-inflammatory benefits for fighting Endometriosis.

Feel Good Fridays

Woman with eyes closed, smiling, and spinning in the falling leaves
Photo by Bruce Mars

Another week has come to a close. Already. Oh my goodness, how time flies!

Do this with me:

“Take a deep breath. Inhale peace. Exhale happiness.” 
― A.D. Posey

And do it again. Close your eyes, let it in, fill your lungs and your being. Feel your ribs expand. Deeply. Hold it a second…then exhale. Think of some favorite memory while you do.

And smile.

I hope you have a wonderful weekend. Love, Lisa

Feel Good Fridays

Handwritten alphabet

This one goes out to all of you who may be struggling with…well, anything.


“Who cares if plan A, B and C didn’t work, there’s a whole darn alphabet!” 
― Haleigh Kemmerly


Never, ever, ever give up. Whatever it may be. Always keep pushing.

Have a glorious weekend! Love, Lisa

Blogs I Updated This Week:

Dungeons & Dragons & Donuts: added Chapter 21 (our November 2018) session and reformatted the page to make reading it a little easier.

Endometriosis & the Appendix: added a March 2019 study of a woman who went to the hospital because of bloating, right-sided abdominal pain, nausea, vomiting, and fever. Guess what they found?

Endometriosis & the Lungs: added a March 2019 study of a woman who coughed up blood during her period. Her surgery, diagnosis, and prognosis await your prying eyes!

Feel Good Fridays

Ripples of a pond

March 22nd already! Endo Awareness Month is almost over. But that doesn’t mean we have to stop spreading awareness!

Mother Theresa said it best:

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” 
― Mother Teresa

Never feel like you have no worth, no affect on others, or no power. You do. You absolutely do.

I hope you have a beautiful weekend. Love, Lisa

Blogs I Updated This Week:

Free Webinar with Dr. Aykut Bayrak – the Endometriosis Family Support Center posted the video of the webinar, in case you couldn’t watch it live.

Feel Good Fridays

Blood red full moon

Another week is over. March is half-way through! How are you doing? Good, I hope. Do let me know in the comments below.

Today’s quote is inspired by my week of ups and downs. I’ve been a moody beast, that’s for sure. Lo and behold, my period snuck up on me…I had skipped February and had no clue when I would start this month. Yesterday…I started yesterday 😉 Which explains the nearly week-long ordeal of insane, extreme emotions.

“It takes a lot of time, focus and energy to realize the enormity of being the ocean with your very own tide every month. However, by honoring the demands of bleeding, our blood gives something in return. The crazed bitch from irritation hell recedes. In her place arises a side of ourselves with whom we may not—at first—be comfortable. She is a vulnerable, highly perceptive genius who can ponder a given issue and take her world by storm. When we’re quiet and bleeding, we stumble upon the solutions to dilemmas that’ve been bugging us all month. Inspiration hits and moments of epiphany rumba ‘across de tundra of our senses. In this mode of existence one does not feel antipathy towards a bodily ritual so profoundly and routinely reinforces our cuntpower.” 
― Inga Muscio, Cunt: A Declaration of Independence

Embrace your inner You-ness. In all it’s (irritated) glory. I know we gals tend to be on our period in groups. If you’re riding the crimson wave with me today, hold your head up high and know it’ll be over soon. Then…THEN…we get to do it again in 25-30 days!!!

Have a glorious weekend and be well. Love, Lisa.

Feel Good Fridays

Back of a woman showing her shoulders and neck line

Man, these past two weeks at work have been exhausting. Purely exhausting. It’s been tense, we’re short-staffed at the moment, and it’s full of deadlines. And also getting ready for our upcoming March Endo events is equally poopy-outty. I’m sleeping at night, but don’t feel rested when I wake up.

I’m wiped.

I’m excited about March 16th and March 30th. So, no regrets. But it’s important to realize that when you’ve stretched yourself too thin or have too much on your plate that you MUST focus on some sort of proper rest and relaxation.

Make some “Me” time. Set down everything else. Breathe. Let it all fall away.

So, if you’re like me today and you’ve just reached a point of pure exhaustion, let’s do this together:

“Relaxing the shoulders is vital for relaxation in general. However, owing to the effects of gravity, relaxation is problematic unless we let the shoulders remain in their natural place. Let the shoulders drop, or settle in harmony with gravity, into their most comfortable position. It isn’t too difficult to do this for a moment, but to sustain this condition unconsciously in our lives is another matter. We raise our shoulders unnaturally when we lean on a desk or hold the telephone between our shoulders and ears, when we are shocked by a loud noise, and who knows how many other times throughout the day. And the unsettling of the shoulders doesn’t have to be large to produce anxiety, stiff necks, and headaches. Just slightly raising them will create tension, and this tension throws the nervous system out of balance.

When do we raise the shoulders in daily life? What are we feeling at that moment and leading up to that moment? Remembering that the body reflects the mind, and that the raising of the shoulders not only creates tension but also is a physical manifestation of psychological tension itself, what are the roots of this tension? Bringing the mind into the moment, let’s observe ourselves in a state free of preconceived ideas or beliefs. Don’t guess at these questions. Observe yourself in relationship to others and the universe” 
― H.E. Davey, Japanese Yoga: The Way of Dynamic Meditation

It isn’t much. But it’s a little. An easy, non-time consuming, quick way to take a moment, draw a breath, and relax those shoulders.

That’s one step. The rest we’ll find time to relax a step at a time. Sometimes we cannot control our outer-stressors. And deadlines must be met. But today? Today I can do this.

Breathe. And drop my shoulders.

I hope you have a beautiful weekend. And find some time to just relllllaaaaax.

Much love to you. Lisa.

Feel Good Fridays

Man checking off a "no" box

This one goes out to all of ya who have to say no to many events, happenings, parties, or even yourself. Self-care is so very important. And you should never feel guilty for having to decline an invitation or cancel plans because *you* need to rest and take care of your body.

“Let today mark a new beginning for you. Give yourself permission to say NO without feeling guilty, mean, or selfish. Anybody who gets upset and/or expects you to say YES all of the time clearly doesn’t have your best interest at heart. Always remember: You have a right to say NO without having to explain yourself. Be at peace with your decisions.”
― Stephanie Lahart

I hope that you ARE able to care for you, first.  And I hope you have a beautiful and relaxing weekend.

Love, Lisa

Feel Good Fridays

A super rainy week in Southern California, and I just love the weather!!! So, here we are, a Friday – the end of another week. February is halfway over – are you ready for March?

On to today’s quote. Another one chosen at random, and if it was meant for you today – then so be it.

“If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you’ve made, if they don’t realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.” 
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

This may be easier said than done, but it can be done. And sometimes it is absolutely necessary for your survival. You have to take care of you, first. If you don’t, how can you care for others?

I know today’s Feel Good quote may be a bit of a downer, but I need you to understand that we are worth the effort and the love. And others cannot get passed the past and judge you for it, cut them loose. Surround yourself with those that unconditionally love you. Move on.

I love you guys. And wish you the best weekend possible. ~Lisa

Feel Good Fridays

Bristlecone Pine tree
An ancient bristlecone pine; From a trip with friends Sept. 2018

Another Friday is upon us and the first week of February has come to a close.

For today’s quote, I opened up the book of “Quotationary” that my Mum bought me and selected a random quote on a random page. May I present to you (Page 207, first column, second quote):

No tree becomes rooted and sturdy unless many a wind assails it. For by its very tossing it tightens its grip and plants its roots more securely; the fragile trees are those that have grown in a sunny valley. ~Seneca the Younger


Of all the random quotes in this 961-page book, my finger landed on this one. And I love it. Not only because I feel it a personal testament … but I also find it a testament of all of you strong Sisters and Warriors. We’ve become stronger by our adversity, our illness, our community. We aren’t a lone battle-scarred tree perched on some forlorn hilltop. No! We are a mighty forest, a tended orchard, a protective thicket, and an oasis in the desert.

Think of the aged and gnarled and resilient bristlecone pines that stand for thousands of years. When we visited the park in California in late 2018, I cannot begin to describe the ferocity of the winds that assailed the top of the mountain…yet the pines stood tall and proud.

We are great in number and greater in spirit. And we are made so by each other and those who support us and hold our hands during the rough times.

You are not alone, my beautiful strong-rooted Ones. Have a wonderful weekend. Love, Lisa

Blogs I Updated This Week:

Bladder & Endometriosis – added a 2019 study of a woman who developed ureteral endometriosis which blocked the flow of urine from her kidney

Endometriosis: Finding the Silver Lining – added Brandy and Amanda’s thoughts on how Endometriosis has positively affected their lives.

Endometriosis & Leg Pain/Sciatica – added a Nov. 2018 study about Endometriosis-induced sciatica

Endometriosis & the Appendix – added a Jan. 2019 study, as well as my Nov. 2018 surgery and personal experience with appendix-endo.

Endometriosis & the Bowel – added a 2019 study of a woman with a bowel obstruction and cecum mass which led to an emergency surgery; turns out: it was Endometriosis.

Endometriosis on your Skin – added a 2019 abstract of a woman who developed a skin-colored nodule that ended up being Endometriosis.

My Fourth Endo Excision Surgery – I received an update on my surgery billing. My insurance covered the hospital and anesthesiologist bills and paid my copay. I’m still waiting for the insurance to approve my pathologist’s bill, as well as waiting for my colo-rectal surgeon’s bill to arrive.

Orlissa: AbbVie’s New Drug to Manage Endometriosis Symptoms – added a 2019 abstract of the Phase 3 Clinical Trial outcomes.

Reader’s Choice: Can Men Get Endometriosis – added a 2019 study of a 54-year-old man who developed Endometriosis at the base of his bladder.